This is terrible. The OpenBSD/SSH team tried this once, with the channel bug. They released the privsep version of ssh which didn't fix but mitigated the bug, and told everybody there was a critical bug and you really, really wanted to upgrade. What happened next? Everybody from Alan Cox on down started complaining about how they weren't going to dance to somebody else's tune and they were going to wait to see the real fix, thank you very much.
I actually remember this incident (albeit blurredly, hell, was that really 10 years ago...).
I dug up a few snippets[1] and I think the main sources of the animosities back then were certain regressions caused by privsep (not a hassle-free change) and a bit of ego-clashing (Alan Cox, Theo).
Your summary of the events may be about right, but is "not wanting to dance to someone else's tune" really a good argument against an attempt at responsible disclosure?