I didn't say it damages anything; I said it will be pretty hard talk to have and hard to manage situation, especially if it somehow leaks to the other kids, kids are cruel. And things that are hard can go bad easily.
"But the other job earning less money would be worse for kid!" is extremely one-dimensional view on that
And I'm not sure how your weird rant about child services is even related to that
> And I'm not sure how your weird rant about child services is even related to that
That's the only alternative you/society offers for these children. So that's what you should compare to. I get that you don't want to do that, because it totally demolishes your argument, but it still is the only alternative.
"But the other job earning less money would be worse for kid!" is extremely one-dimensional view on that
And I'm not sure how your weird rant about child services is even related to that