Doing any kind of style discussion in a code review means you’ve already failed.
I personally get super annoyed when people keep pointing out style issues, but our CI tool can notify me of issues with my commit until the end of time without me getting frustrated with it.
> Doing any kind of style discussion in a code review means you’ve already failed
This sort of baseless assertion has no bearing in reality. In a project that hasn't adopted any linting tools and automatic style checks, all it takes is a misconfigured editor to post a change request that fails to comply with style guides. These sorts of absolutes show a complete detachment from reality and absence of any practical experience in the field.
I personally get super annoyed when people keep pointing out style issues, but our CI tool can notify me of issues with my commit until the end of time without me getting frustrated with it.