> They were lovingly cared for by their father, their grandmother, my son’s preschool teacher and my daughter’s babysitter.

For me that’s the critical part. Her kids could still feel they don’t get enough of her time, but they’re not just abandonned.

As a kid I spent a lot of time with my grand mother and other outer family members, without my parents. It was fine, actually fun, and everyone seemed to feel responsible for my well being while I was with them.

I also feel this mother chose to prioritize her job because she actualy could, and wouldn’t be doing so if her kids were miserable.